Ok, so I demanded my husband fully disclose everything about his sexual addiction.
This was THE most hurtful part of all I had been through regarding his addiction.
According to him, the actual encounters stopped just prior to our wedding. I did not believe this especially since he admit that the phone calls and masturbation during these chat line calls.
Anyway, I’m not sure if he was just angry about my pressuring him and was trying to be hurtful or if he just decided to tell me all the graphic details. I guess it was a little of both.
Most of this information I knew already, what I didn’t know was of course, was the very hurtful details. When I say graphic, I am talking about EVERY detail.
I was not ready for this and it was devastating beyond what I can put into words.
I read later that this should be done as a couple with a counselor at a certain timeframe during his recovery.